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Don't like kids...
Children. I don't like children. But automatically since I am a woman, that makes me a horrible horrible person to most of the population. Practically all my friends have kids and from my perspective, I don't see the benefits of bringing one into the world. My friends are tired, broke, exasperated and repetitive when they're trying to control their bratty child. Why on earth would I put myself through that too? Just to conform to what society expects of me? My answer to that would be "no, thanks. I'm good.".
As a person that isn't 'child-friendly' I defintely feel ostrisized since I changed the rules for myself. Plus, I constantly feel as though I have to be forced into dealing with other people's children because they're 'the package deal'. How about this for a change? How about trying to understand from my point of veiw how uncomfortable I am with children and how much I cannot stand their kid's bad behavior around me? And feeling even more uncomfortable when I can't do anything about it except wince when kids are compelled to let out ear splitting screeching or whining? For the love of my sanity, spank the child!
Out of all the parents I meet I think I've only met 1 child that I actually adored. And that was because they actually took the time to teach him right from wrong. To all the other parents that let their kids dictate the house, take up the responsibilty and dicipline the kid. You are bigger and should know better.
As a person that isn't 'child-friendly' I defintely feel ostrisized since I changed the rules for myself. Plus, I constantly feel as though I have to be forced into dealing with other people's children because they're 'the package deal'. How about this for a change? How about trying to understand from my point of veiw how uncomfortable I am with children and how much I cannot stand their kid's bad behavior around me? And feeling even more uncomfortable when I can't do anything about it except wince when kids are compelled to let out ear splitting screeching or whining? For the love of my sanity, spank the child!
Out of all the parents I meet I think I've only met 1 child that I actually adored. And that was because they actually took the time to teach him right from wrong. To all the other parents that let their kids dictate the house, take up the responsibilty and dicipline the kid. You are bigger and should know better.
(1 year 5 month ago)
You are Evil!! lol
(1 year 5 month ago)
Syvia Plath-esque. Very good points
(1 year 5 month ago)
I have a friend just like you except she wants a family of her own one day. I do not believe there's anything wrong with your opinion. Thats why it is YOUR opinion. You don't have to put up with anyone elses bratty children. If they can't simply get away from the kids for a simple lunch then stick to telephone convos. Life is way too short to deal with things you dont like and can control being around. Ask yourself this: whats the purpose? whats the purpose of being around these people if it upsets you? as a matter of fact, ask yourself that question in every situation.
(10 month 3 week ago)
Hey, you're not alone. Seems like society expects women in particular to instantly adore kids and babies. Kids seems to get all the sympathy, the sweet looks. When they do annoying or rude stuff many adults, even those who are snooty or harsh to other adults, will often think it's cute. I think it's not so much the disliking of kids as it is feeling as if there's something wrong or bad if you don't melt at the sight of one.
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