I'm from lalitpir,Nepal.To be out from the daily routine,I'm faraway from kathmandu valley.Noone is here...........................................................

I hate kids, too! I was not abused and I have friends, all the normal stuff. Not everyone likes kids! Does everyone like cars, sewing, sports? No, we are all different! I have one who is now 18. I was an excellent mom and he still turned out to be a bastard loser!!! I'm broke, stressed out, and hate life because of him.

one question-Are you two equally yoked? if not, you will end up miserable and it will never work and you will never experience all God has for you because you will be so focused on what you shouldnt be with in the beginning.

He's playing a mind game. Run away fast. He will only hurt you.

Just think of the peace you will have without him around, you will be doing your self and your son a favor. This abuse will only get worse, these types of men do these things because they know they can get away with it. You must get some professional counseling from women groups or shelters and move on for good. My sister was in a similar situation with two children one diabetic, the day she took the decision, she became the strongest person I know. To day she is happily married, raised 2 great boys, finished her school and has a great job. If she did not take that decision she would have never lived a normal life. Just do it, get in contact of a local community women group that will give you a step by step transition process. GOOD LUCK YOU ARE WORTH IT! DO NOT HESITATE. Fred

i think u have bore more than enough...u have to think bout ur future..ur decision rit nw will shape ur future..sit back and think wat u want in life n how ur current decision is going to help u in dat

im living with a girl with 3 boys. all under 9. they are ok kids, but i cant stand them. especially her youngest. hes a little bastard. sometimes i wonder why im with her. but i love her to death, shes funny, smart, fun to be with, and she is very very very beautiful. her kids are all cry babys. the oldest one is going to grow up to be a pussy, the middle ones gonna be a freakin retard, and the youngest is gonna be a filthy stinking dirt ball. they are all filthy, disgusting, shit on there fingers, pooping, never listen to me, worthless little monsters. i cant be in the same room with them for more than a while, and she gets pissed at me when ignore them, or walk away.... IF UR YOUNGEST KID IS SITTING THERE STICKING HIS DIRTY LITTLE FINGERS IN HIS MOUTH, AND TRYING TO STICK THEM IN MY EAR, OF COURSE IM GONNA WALK AWAY, BEFORE I SMASH HIS FILTHY HEAD IN THE CARPET!!!!!! and shes laughin the whole time hes doin it too. and then she gets mad and calls me a baby for walking away.... i hate ur kid, piss off.

Hang in there. To some extent you are right about only trusting yourself, but you can trust others to some extent too. As much as you need somebody, other people need you. It's just that decent people you can connect with are hard to come by. You need to be open, believe they are there and keep looking. Try to spend more time at school etc. Often times schools have a counselor, they can be very helpful.

Hey - I know the feeling about wanting to have the ideal Christmas situation. Keep in mind that everyone wants what they don't have. Since you're going anyways, try to focus on that and mention the next year that you're going to stay home for Christmas. If it helps any, Thailand changed my life. Not a day goes by that I don't still think of it, favourite travel experience by far. Try to make the most of it, being in a foreign country is never fun if you're in a negative mood. Oo plus! You can buy the best and cheapest christmas gifts for everyone at home, they'll love you! $5 or less and you'll have something awesome :) Maybe plan a family get together when you get back, share a big meal, and share photos and gifts?

I'm 39 and can't stand kids either. I will never have one. I lived with a woman I loved very much for two years and her 11 now 13 year old son. He was a whiny, spoiled wimp. Never did anything but sit on his ass in front of a computer. His mom did everything but wipe his behind. I couldn't stand it and I left. I still love her but never again. If a woman has kids I will run till my feet fall off. It doesn't make you a bad person, not everyone is the same.
 
I dont understand why people would want the nightmare and headache. The cost is unreal on top of it and your life revolves around them 24/7. There is nothing better when I come home after working 14 hours to a quiet peaceful home with only my expenses to worry about and meet with my beautiful, childless and much younger new girlfriend.
 
Knowing when I'm 50 and have a very nice large sum of hard earned money saved and a good pension that is mine and not going to school bills, sweet 16's, (and worse if your kid is sick) Doctor bills, therapists etc.
 
I will be able to travel and do what I want and enjoy my life. And don't say you will be old and alone bc that is the biggest lump of horseshit society tries to throw at you.

I have a friend just like you except she wants a family of her own one day. I do not believe there's anything wrong with your opinion. Thats why it is YOUR opinion. You don't have to put up with anyone elses bratty children. If they can't simply get away from the kids for a simple lunch then stick to telephone convos. Life is way too short to deal with things you dont like and can control being around. Ask yourself this: whats the purpose? whats the purpose of being around these people if it upsets you? as a matter of fact, ask yourself that question in every situation.

Hello, I have a job that takes me all around the world. I, unlike most people dont care to go anywhere BUT we both have to realize its not being ungrateful. Its just our preference not to want to go anywhere. We all aren't the same. Staying honest with your parents might just be the key however not stressing them out when he has a medical issue(which is way more important) would be a great idea. Maybe you could talk to them in advance so you dont go next year. Maybe you can ask theme to compromise on going next year or maybe go sooner and stay home for the Holidays.