I hate hate hate kids!  I hate my boyfriend's kids with a mad passion.  They are annoying, loud and know-it-alls.  They get it from their mother, and she is also in the picture (which is a good thing), but she's about as ridiculous as the kids are.  After being home for 10 seoonds, they start demanding things and are spoiled little shits.  Hmmm.  Would I rather gain a shit-ton of weight, go through a hellish labor, and be tied down for years...OR fly to Europe, have a life and get together with friends that doesn't include a "play date"?  How lame is that? I love to travel. While I'm on the beach in Spain, your boobs will be leaking.  Have fun.

kids totally suck.  But then, so do most of their parents.

You people are all children, I am too. If no one loved children we would not be born.

i am a 13 year old and this is horrible! i was a great child! i still am! and sometimes people like you will come and call me a b*tch child for stuff i dont even think is wrong! for example the other day these 17-19 year olds came and pushed me off the swings and laughed when i skinned my knee! then they said to go home and i did. i was really scared! and then i did a preasentation and one adult sais i was horrible! i had tried really hard but mrs.conner did not think so! i get my own money and NEVER get allowence but my parents and i still love eachother! we give eachother hugs and i just fineshed saying goodnigh to my daddy and i hope he has sweet dreams! all you people could NEVER have this bond because you DONT TRY!!!!!!!!!i hope all your kids read this someday and see what terrible parents you are! they will run off crying and NEVER love you!

You totally have your own opionion, so I am not saying you are wrong,but my Father died when I was very young and my Mom had to raise me by herself. I was an amazing child ( Although teenage years came with difficulty ) I hate to hear kids cry, but the do not know better, if a kid is annoying by asking the same question over and over it is because they are curious and you are not giving them the answer. They scream because they are upset about something. If your child is a little fleash eating demon baby there has GOT TO BE A REASON WHY! AND YOU NEED TO FIND IT! If you have a kid you need to be able to raise it, and that does not mean giving him food, water and a bed, you need to SUPPORT children!

Why would anyone in their right mind want kids?
You would be better off in jail or just drowning in a dark confined space....
Kids are perfect for you if:
 
You want to wake up early in the morning to the little bastard(s) screamimg, instead of getting your proper sleep.
 
If you don't want to have a sex live to speak of, partly because you are too tired and partly because your other kid is screaming for your attention in the next room or wrecking something of yours...
 
You want to be always broke and you want to spend your last penny on diapers and stupid toys they will end up braking anyway...
 
If you enjoy not being able to leave your house even for a little while, unless you find a third party (babysitter)...
 
If you don't ever want to make any spontanious decisions to go out and have fun.
 
If you think going for vacations is lame.
 
If you love finding objects inside your DVD/VCR and if you love having your stuff broken.
 
If you love it, when your house looks like a pig sty, smelling of vomit with flem, mocus and buggers everywhere....
 
If you don't mind any of that then the kids are right for you...
 
Me?....i love my freedom, i love my fun, i love having money in my pocket, clean quiet place to live, not having any responsibility and being able to do what i want and when and answer to no-one...
If i want to go to Mexico the only hurdle for me to overcome would be my work schedule....
I love life and those, who have foolishly destroyed theirs with their decision to have kids are just jealous, thats why they pretend to be so "discusted" when they find out that i didn't flush my life down the toilet like they did...
Those are the kinds of people who are pushy becausemisery loves company and just because their lives are now worthlessn they want yours to be worthless too.
I got my vasectomy at relatively young age and it is the best decision i have ever made...  

Wishing you the best for the new year. Hopefully things are better and keep us updated.
 
Jen

theres nothing wrong with you at all!!
people chose there own life path and do not follow this....u have to be and do the same things as every other drone!!
if their were more people in the world who went with their instincts and didnt bring kids into the world....we may not be in the shit that we are in...benifits abuse,crime etc...this is to all you parents who allow thier kids to run amok and basically dont give a shit about em!!...so why did u have em?....extra cash!!
so go with your own instincts and if people critisie your choice ...tell em to f**k off and look after their own selfish little brats

Is she doing ok now. I pray for your mom's hand to get better

Kinda late but it happens. me and my brother same. i am 21 now and when i left for uni, my brother was crying (18). then i missed home so went back home in weekends, then what he says is "leave home right now". But i am not trying to mislead you here. when i have something bad going on my brother is the one who I tell first. You always fight with the most loved person only. AS you grow up and spend less time together, you will know how much you miss your brother and the fights.

don't think that there is always end.Where there is end,there is also beginning.Let your mind to flow and free from your daily stuffs.Move with the time and do whatever you like without misusing yourself.Have a best time ahead.

It's your own life.Let your mind free from all the stuffs.Live your life freedomly without misusing...................Have fun