It always seems really hard to break up at first because you are emotionally involved, but once you stop talking to him and get over him, you'll wonder why you ever bothered.  Give yourself a healthy self esteem pump and leave him cold turkey, no turning back.  If you prove to yourself you deserve better, better things will come into your life :)

i'm the same 14 year old above. yeah i love my parents AND in the future i'll be next president

to all who hate kids...i hope you have a good time down below i'm a 14 year old boy and i'm the nicest person and i'm a good child

High IQ probably.  Didn't you ever notice how idiot have shitloads of kids and the smarter people are the fewer they have?  

The decision to NOT have children is a mature one, and should never be questioned by others.  There is no law saying you must have children, even if you do like other people's kids.
 
I have three children, whom I love dearly.  Some days it is a huge challenge.  However, I wouldn't trade them for the world, even the severely autistic one.  That is not to say that other people should have children and accept that as their fate.
 
I found this blog because I'm searching for a way to tell one of my best friends that I don't want my kid playing with her kid.  Love the mother, can't stand the child.  So, even though I have kids, I understand why some of the people here can't stand other people's kids.
 
I wish you luck with your life.

dude, if you really want her back you have to move on. it is something about human nature that makes us to want only what we can't have. You have to become unaccessible to her and she will want you back. It takes about a month or so. In this time do not make any contact with her and do not ask friends also about her. Start phisical training, go out, have fun. Meet her  after a month and tell her that you made a mistake not understanding her needs to be free and that you begged like a little boy...she needs a man. Also tell her that you moved on but learned from the lesson and that you support her decision. Make the meeting 20 min maximum. Just to be sure set something in your scheddule. And leave. The thing is you should not be lying girls now when we do that, sometimes they do not want to believe it. So better really move on. After another two weeks period in whichyou continue building yourself up you meet again, just to check how is she doing. 30 minutes maximum. In all this period you do not tell her anything related to your plans of winning her back,or your deep felings. By doing this you become unaccesible and also stronger and more manly. Have fun, live life also start dating. girls are attracted to that not being weak. When she will see how good you are doing without her she will want you back. Do all of that genuinely. Don't tell her that you started dating...she will find out from others anyway. I can tell you that  Sometimes by that time you will not want her back.

Don't rush nor force things. Let it happen naturally. If it is meant to happen with this Julian guy, it will.

Oh man.. I hate kids too but at least none are throwing diapers. That  must be a health hazard and you should call the cops and get a restraining order on them. Have no mercy laws are laws and harassment   is wrong  no matter what age. Start putting razors in the trash LOL..

I hate kids too. I have been wondering the same thing.. what is wrong with me? Why can't I just see and feel the same things other people seem to feel and see when they're around kids. I find kids annoying, loud, messy.. they cause nothing but problems and rob you of your personal life and freedom.

Okay, this sounds exactly like my last relationship so I'm going to try and give you the other perspective. Sometimes, people just fall out of love. If one person is doing everything and putting all the effort, they get tired and just want something else.  That's what happened with my boyfriend and I. He loved me a lot, I know he did, and I did too. But, I was always the one making an effort to make the relationship work and last, and in the end, I got tired so I just stopped caring and he started taking up the hint and tried to make it work, but by then, I was just too far gone and things didn't work out. Now we're both single, but a lot happier than we were. It's hard to feel happy right away after letting go of someone you've cared for for so long, but if the relationship wasn't working, it's better to just let it go.

I think it would be best for you to leave him. Any guy who makes you feel unhappy, or gives you reason not to trust him, is not worth your time. It's hard to get over strong emotional ties, but trust me, in the end, it will be worth it.

Heyy,, it seems like i'm sort of in the same boat..i've been with my guy for a year..he said he loved me, bought me things, and even got my named tattooed..but now it seems like hes all about money, and wants to tlk to other girls for money...i get left out the picture an im stuck in love, while he wants to hang with his friends. I'll tell you what everyone has told me. Leave Her Alone..if you're a good guy then she'll realise what she had an want to come back..its going to be hard, but try an stay busy to keep your mind off her. but good luck