Know what you meen i had lots of people who i talk to on a day to day bacis from work mainly they were always around when they wanted something But now im not working were are they ?? not exactley friends were they!!! never had enyone i could realy talk to though and none of them out of work hours its not that easy to make friends is it.

why is it that you dont notice these odd things until months later when you split up? Been there a few times

its been soooooo long i cant remember!!!!!

I feel this way too.
Nothing anyone says makes it better.

Your not a failure you just sound lost try sorting one thing at a time to find a little happiness, When you go out try to pace yourself spend more time talking to the people your out with this should slow down your drinking.
Work on keeping up with one or two old friends a quick Hi how are you once a week should be a good to start with (one good friend is better than none!)
Hope im not interfering Hang in there xx  

And don’t worry - I’m always safe. CURFWB and I actually both had HIV tests at work, and ExFWB hadn’t been with anyone else before Yes, I live with the one girl, and I was her first, and I work with the other one. Eish. I guess that adds a whole new layer to this predicament!

Hey, thx for the comment
 
I do feel that I'm in a bit of a pickle with this situation. I guess the CURFWB's timing is just really bad. I feel like I have gone from a state of celibacy and turned into a sexual fiend. Lol. It’s funny how life works like that. I really just don’t want to hurt anyone (namely ExFWB).

hey there, daaarnnn u really know how to put your feet in it. Ex-Best-friend-with-benefits (ExFWB) will be hurt if she finds out, if it is by hearing from you, or someone else. She'll find out either way, best u tell her. It may scar your relationship, but if she hears it from someone else, it may be the end. Thing is, we are emotional beings, u were the one who decided that its not gonna work more than her. EBFWB probably feels something for you, even if it is only a little. Current-friend-with-benefits (CurFWB)if she takes sex as casual, then her relationship with you is casual. I dont know her at all...so from a third party random person that visits the peegly website, try not to get attached, and beware that she doesnt get attached to you. If she confessed her feelings...she probably do have something for you.
 
look its only my thoughts, lz dont be angry or offended coz once again....i have noooo idea who u are, ExFWB or CurFWB
 
good luck...and dont be silly wrap your Willy...AIDS can happen to you too. I may sound like ur grandma or mom, but im a loooot younger than u think. anyway i hope it works out

I want love!

:D

You need to get laid

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